homework 56

questions:

what order are you in the birthing rank and do you think affects you as a person?

does having too much siblings (or too little) had a psychological affect on you and how did those carry on to your adulthood now?

did the lack (or too much) attention have a huge impact on your childhood and what did you gain or lose from it growing up till now?

how did your birthing rank have an affect on your decision about having kids or not and how many?

interviews:

yassy: she is the youngest in her family and has one older sister. she feels that she is the baby of the family and nobody wants to tell her stuff cus they think it would upset her. they treat her younger than what she is. she said it was good and bad cus she would get more presents. it somewhat have a psychological effect because she still lives with her sister and sees her 24/7 she feels that they are best friends as well as sisters because they have a close bond. she always gets attention from her dad and now they are really close. and has a close bond with her mother but gets annoying at times cus she tries to be "all up in her business." it did affect on how many kids and she would want two because they could keep each other company.

mommy: she is the second oldest and does not have an effect on her. she didn't get along with her siblings and there for is not that close. she had lack of attention and made only but a stronger person. she always wanted to have kids but never had an exact number but would keep it small.

malleni: she is the middle child and she thinks that she has the attention she needs. she doesnt plan on having kids in the future because of the fact she doesnt really like small children. that may result by having younger siblings she doesnt want to have to relive a childhood if she doesnt have to.

after interviewing all these people it seems like having too many siblings have a big affect cus there are too many to keep track of and you usually dont always get what you want when you want it or all the attention you need because of the fact there will always be someone else stealing the spotlight. and having too little or just enough siblings is better on a person because they would have a closer bond with each other and would never feel neglected.